The Destination Wedding Packing List You’ll Actually Use
Packing for a destination wedding or elopement sounds fun… until you realize you’re packing for travel + marriage + photos + weather + emotions all at once.
After photographing destination weddings and elopements all over, I’ve seen what couples are grateful they packed—and what they never touched.
This is a realistic, no-fluff packing list designed to help you feel prepared without overpacking.
First: Pack With Intention, Not Anxiety
Before you start throwing things into a suitcase, ask yourself:
What will help us feel calm?
What will help us feel comfortable?
What will help us be present?
You don’t need everything.
You need the right things.
Wedding Day Essentials (Non-Negotiables)
These should always be in your carry-on—never checked.
Marriage license + required documents
Rings (double check before leaving the house)
Vows or letters
Wedding attire
Shoes for the ceremony
Jewelry and sentimental accessories
If a bag gets lost, these are the items you’ll want with you.
Clothing: Wedding + Real Life
Wedding Attire
Dress/suit
Undergarments you’ll actually wear
Alteration tools (fashion tape, safety pins)
Steamer or wrinkle-release spray
Layers (Trust Me on This)
Jacket, sweater, shawl, or coat
Extra socks or tights
Comfortable outer layer for early mornings or evenings
Weather and elevation can change quickly—layers save the day.
Shoes That Make Sense
Bring:
Ceremony shoes
Comfortable walking or hiking shoes
Backup shoes (just in case)
You can always change shoes.
You can’t enjoy the day if your feet hurt.
Hair, Makeup & Grooming
Even if you’re hiring a professional, bring essentials:
Touch-up makeup
Hair ties, pins, clips
Anti-frizz or smoothing product
Lip balm
Blotting papers
Travel-size mirror
Wind, humidity, and emotion are real—be prepared.
Weather & Environment Must-Haves
These are often overlooked but hugely helpful:
Clear or neutral umbrella
Sunscreen
Bug spray
Sunglasses
Hand warmers (for cold locations)
Refillable water bottles
Comfort allows you to stay present—and it shows in photos.
For Adventure or Outdoor Elopements
If your day includes hiking or exploring:
Backpack
Snacks or protein bars
Headlamp or flashlight
Phone charger or battery pack
Towel or blanket
Comfortable clothes to change into
These items quietly support the experience without stealing focus.
Photo-Specific Extras (Optional but Helpful)
You don’t need props—but a few thoughtful items can add depth:
Veil or flowy accessory
Sentimental heirloom
Small florals
Blanket or scarf for cozy moments
Only bring items that feel like you.
Personal Comfort Items
These matter more than couples expect:
Medication
Pain relievers
Tissues
Mints or gum
Deodorant
Travel-size first aid kit
Little comforts can make a big difference on an emotional day.
What You Probably Don’t Need
I see these packed—and unused—all the time:
Too many outfit changes
Trendy props you don’t love
“Just in case” items that add stress
Anything you feel obligated to bring
If it doesn’t serve your comfort or meaning, leave it behind.
Pro Packing Tips From a Traveling Photographer
Pack wedding items first, then fill gaps with regular clothes
Lay everything out before zipping your suitcase
Take photos of important items in case of loss
Pack outfits together (head to toe)
Keep it simple—simplicity brings peace
Remember What You’re Really Packing For
You’re not packing for a photoshoot. You’re packing for a once-in-a-lifetime experience. The more prepared you are, the less you’ll think about what’s in your bag—and the more you’ll feel what’s happening around you. Pack what supports your comfort. Pack what supports your connection. Pack what allows you to be present. Everything else is just extra weight.
If you’re planning a destination wedding or elopement and want guidance that goes beyond logistics—from packing lists to timeline planning—I’d love to help you create a day that feels calm, intentional, and fully yours.
You deserve to enjoy every moment—starting with the journey.